What makes someone want to commit to marriage? - congratulation marriage
I've thought many times about that and I'm interested in your feedback. With the collapse of marriage in its highest point is hard to say, "I"? I am particularly pleased to hear from those of you who have that obligation, are interested, and that her feelings changed in the decision. By the way, congratulations to those who did. I respect marriage and what it represents.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
Congratulation Marriage What Makes Someone Want To Commit To Marriage?
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Here's an idea / input from someone who has "that" more than once, been there / done, twice) three times (more than one wife. . .
Partners tend more to help "push" more quickly and completely, from walk of life are just passing through. Ser / to be alone in this world, tends to be self-centered lifestyle contribute - not conducive to learning as a whole, while in cooperation - such as Up Close and Personal. In the desire to give and take with another, is what prompted me to lead in marriage.
My teammates have died before me. . .
LOVE is what people marry, commitment and respect for others is what keeps people. These things do not go together is something that grows over time. Many people marry someone who will not really know, and what better way to meet someone, but to live with them, then they learn, they do not like or respect, and the divorce court they go.
My husband and I are together for 18 years, and the boy was not a difficult path to the top (like most people) There were many times that I do not think that they wanted, and I'm sure, if not, but we love each other, but we grew up together, we respect each other and talk about our problems before they explode to reach the point. Not only the love of my husband, I really like is my best friend, and I am sure that is what brings us together.
I think the divorce rate is high because the people from getting married, and within 3 years. You can not say someone enough to marry in 3 years.
Marriage is the last stage of a relationship is the most difficult to achieve. presupposes that the person who really knows the difference between love and infatuation, which (the feeling that people often confuse love and a reason to marry is). also requires the person to understand and accept that person as a bond that lasted until broken. last of all, marry the person, it must be to awaken your mind and heart, and select ... uh ... Kidneys. I do not think that people want these days to take your time to. Either they believe in the fairy tale romance, where everyone meets, which are intended to come into in the days and is always happy forever.
Marriage is the last stage of a relationship is the most difficult to achieve. presupposes that the person who really knows the difference between love and infatuation, which (the feeling that people often confuse love and a reason to marry is). also requires the person to understand and accept that person as a bond that lasted until broken. last of all, marry the person, it must be to awaken your mind and heart, and select ... uh ... Kidneys. I do not think that people want these days to take your time to. Either they believe in the fairy tale romance, where everyone meets, which are intended to come into in the days and is always happy forever.
We have to keep trying until we get it right!
I think that is the high number of divorces is because people get married before they are really ready, to obtain. I also believe that divorce has become socially acceptable. The generation of my grandparents have not, but they stayed together, no matter what "for children", even if they hated. "S What we have done. Things started with my parents' generation (the hippies), modify, and delegate further.
My advice to anyone who believes that marriage is: get a * really * know this person. Consider all your bad habits and peculiarities. If there is one aspect of personality, which needs to be changed, it can not enforce. You must want to change your delivery address.
Less trivial than it appears unable to marry, a person to live. Marry the person who no longer live without her. That is love.
I think that many people do see marriage as something. Childhood, school, marriage, children. Personally, I think we set a minimum age for marriage (at least 25), the people a chance, a little more mature. Many young people get married because they want to marry, with little foresight into what is really necessary to run a wedding. Or they mistakenly believe that marriage will solve their relationship problems, when in fact, usually from a severe course of counseling before marriage no longer occurs. I think it's a shame that marriages may end in divorce today. My parents are still together after 40 years of marriage, and I'm hoping the same commitment, trust and friendship develops get. I support the idea - Congratulations to the couple who survived! I am eager to join them one day!
This notion of a fairy tale that will never love another person again. With more than 6 billion people on Earth, is completely unrealistic. If we go prepared, we can treat them like adults when it occurs (I am not saying that fraud is likely to only attraction and intense feelings of others).
It also helps if you are not in the divorce, unless extreme circumstances, to believe. My mother thinks she does not have a lot of work on their marriage, and they believe in divorce. So no, my father kept the infidelity outside of marriage so easily. And he won the final. :)
In addition, most people are not willing to accept that changes in the world.
I could on all day, but I'll stop.
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